As long as you are doing it for just reasons that are balanced for you. It’s not even about judging what’s right or wrong, you know, who are we—there is nobody on this earth that can tell you what you’re feeling is wrong, you know? They can tell what you’re feeling is different than what they’re feeling. That said, I’m okay with people trying to do whatever it is they need to do to feel better. (x)
(Source: ciaraobreen, via oldshellhead)
”To me, what hurts me, is the fact that you are told all the times: “we are equal” like “I don’t know what is your deal” like “what is your fucking issue with this or with that?” but then you realize: no, actually we are not! You are getting paid more than I. You get to have more options in terms of what you want to watch for entertainment. When you go to the movies you have 90 movies. 90 different stories that you can watch through your eyes, through the eyes of a male. And one complain that I might make - one observation - that’s actually very very truth about the fact that there isn’t enough things for us, for women out there it’s like ”shut up!” Why aren’t you happy? Why can’t you just be like every girl? Just… why do you always have to try to be the man? It’s not even about trying to be the man, it’s about trying to feel significant, trying to feel equal, trying to believe that my purpose in life was more than just be half of something else and deliver the packages, the kids to this individual so that they can glorify themselves. By the time of my 30’s and I fall in love and I have a career, I’m gonna be making less than a man, I’m gonna lose my name to a man. […] And by the time that they come back they are unattractive! (x)
(Source: lawsten, via theconversationwithamanda)
The Conversation with Amanda de Cadenet Thursdays 11/10c on Lifetime
“My mom has always been a moral compass, a little lighthouse in my life.” - Zoe Saldana talks about how she developed her sense of self on The Conversation with Amanda de Cadenet (premieres tonight 11/10c on Lifetime)
